Self-care days

Work has been crazy busy, family stuff is busy, the up north cabin project is ongoing. Lots of stuff.

Thursday I was looking forward to some self-care days. It was such a treat to log off work Friday, shut ‘er down, and just breathe. No big weekend plans. A chill Friday night.

I was also really looking forward to gardening at the historic cemetery today. Thursday we found the remaining brown mulch we needed to finish the rock to mulch swap. It has been a challenge. A lot of the stores have sold out their open pallets and wrapped their unopened pallets to send back. My friend found some at, of all places, the nicer grocery store in town, and for an awesome price. Between my friend and her husband and my husband and I, we got all the remaining mulch we needed. This year. It looks awesome!!! It was not without a few challenges – like a downpour this morning, but we are there. When the iris transplants are done, I will take final pics and share.

When back at home mid morning today, I went about our gardens.

The raised, covered seedling planter – where I put pots with daylily seeds to grow unbothered by squirrels and bunnies – needed to go back into the garage until next spring, the forget-me-nots and clover needed paring down, the hosta scapes that wrapped up this week needed cutting back, the daylily scapes with no seed pods needed cutting back, and the shrubs desperately needed serious trimming. Back in shape now.

Today was the last bloom for one of the Just Plum Happy daylilies

I will need to get after cutting those scapes back.

But probably not tomorrow. Tomorrow is forecasted to be a rain day. All day.

Time for some non-gardening self care, decluttering, donation drop-off, putzing around the house, reading a book, doing laundry slow and relaxed. Just a non-gardening rainy chill day.

Lasts and good results, so far

“Last” daylilies (for the season) are starting to occur. Purple D’Oro bloomed her last today (for the 2023 season here).

She has been cavorting with China Doll, with some good initial results. Amazing what happens when a diploid gets together with a diploid 😉

We shall see.

South Seas also bloomed her last for the season here today.

She has been hanging around with Marque Moon lately.

We shall see how that goes.

That IS a Tirzah

Last fall when we did the transplanting of the red daylilies, I moved some small daylilies out front that were getting trampled. I made a diagram, and thought I captured everything. I planted a very small, very smooshed daylily plant (no blooms) opposite the peach daylily that had been one of my first daylilies. I thought it was a seedling from a seed from a non-intentional cross from Purple D’Oro. I labelled it that way. It bloomed this year. It looked amazingly like a Pink Tirzah. Amazingly like a Pink Tirzah – but much shorter than our other Tirzah. Much shorter.

Today that daylily bloomed for the last time this year – no more buds. I am convinced it is a Pink Tirzah. Which means that it is not a seedling from Purple D’Oro. Drats. Maybe one will bloom next year.

Purple D’Oro has many seedlings from seeds again this year. And many seed pods again this year.

Hosta updates

Gardens are an experiment. Things are constantly changing, growing, crowding, needing thinning, transplanting … Sometimes it requires patience, and sometimes we get very quick answers. So it is with the proposed woodland hosta garden at the historic cemetary. The deer have spoken. They, or their buddies the turkeys love them! It was a fun trial, but no woodland hosta garden will be built at the historic cemetery. What survives in the full sun of the fence garden will be it for hostas there.

It is also bunny time at the townhouse gardens. Thinking the last blooms on this hosta will be her dinner in the next few nights.

We think it is a her, as she had a very persistent visitor a few weeks back – that we have not seen before.

Sadly, we are thinking this was also the work of the bunny. Compost time. The daylily seedlings in that pot are ready to be planted so those will be a project in the next few days, along with the other potted daylily seedlings.

And the hostas that are done blooming are all getting haircuts. I made the “no hosta seed saving” decision a while back. We do not need any more hostas 😂

Marque Moon

The first Marque Moon blooms of the year

I did an intentional cross with Purple D’Oro, which only had one bloom yesterday. Wasn’t sure if they were a good cross option but I decided to just wing it. I have now found a good source of ploidy and parentage info and have found that Purple D’Oro is diploid and Marque Moon is tetraploid, so the cross I did will probably not succeed. But hey, I am now farther down the path to educated decisions for potential crosses.

Yikes! Yet one more thing my poor non-geeky husband and friends will now endure in our conversations. Hopefully I can pay it back with a successful beautiful cross.

long awaited

What I thought was the Purple D’Oro pollinator created seedling bloomed yesterday and again today. It sure looks like Tirzah, only much shorter and smaller – like Purple D’Oro short. I used to have a site I could use to identify hosta parentage. I can’t find a site like that for daylilies – so far. So, I need to get my act together and remedy that.

Either way it is definitely a keeper. Lovely!

We can do that

It all started with our now 2 year old grandson. I am not very schmaltzy and I never envisioned I would be utterly taken in by one very little person – haha – but it happened. Turns out grandparenting is WAY more indulgent then parenting. Who knew? Days where daycare backup was needed, events where he (absolutely adorably) sat in his wagon and charmed everyone we met while we shopped for vegetable plants at the University Extension plant sale, neighborhood walkabouts, and eventually sleepovers. And that first birthday where Grandpa agreed to make ribs for 40 people. What??? Grandma said Grandpa needed a much bigger grill for that! So here it came, on a delivery from the hardware store, in all it’s techno gigantic (to me) glory. Grandpa cooked those ribs and they went like hot cakes. And then it was time to incorporate that new grill into our patio area. Yah. But it is awesome, we use it a lot, and I love the smoky taste and even start-up ambiance. Hey, you do stuff to make great experiences, right?

So the new grill moved into the older smaller wood fired grill’s space, and I cringed a bit, but “it was worth it”. The features! It can be started from hub’s phone! Who wouldn’t love a grill you can start from your phone??? But a grill that casts a much larger shadow on the garden?

We moved some overcrowded daylilies that were now in much more of a shadow, and I made a daylily seedling bed. Seedlings need more protection, right?

I have had 4 garden season months to assess. I do not like the seedling bed at all 😂 Not one bit. It looks like a weed patch 👎 I like seedlings mixed among other more mature plants. Soooo … Enlist the help of hubs, reassess, and rearrange to fold in the requirements of our ever changing life. Weed patch (er daylily seedling bed) out – they need more sun anyways – and hostas that also need to move anyways, in, to that newly shaded area.

In a way it will simplify my life. Big, more maintenance free hostas close to the house, and daylilies farther out where I can enjoy them while sitting on the patio after a long work day, enjoying a beverage with hubs, winding down as the smoke from the grill starts up and our dog asks to come up and sit on my lap.

Yah, we can do that.

And on Saturday I will get after that clover – again 😉 But I kind of like the Linden leaves covering up the rock. Looks more natural, “path-y”, right?

decisions, decisions

Under the linden there is a wonderful garden of hostas and daylilies. The hostas are getting very mature and are encroaching on the very polite daylilies, who are saying, “Alright, here are some greens, but not many flowers for you. Get me some new digs, please. Or maybe just get that guy out of here, please.” Hahaha! I cannot decide on the message. Move the daylilies, or move one very large (5′ wide) hosta. Hubs says move the very large hosta. He may win out. But not sure what I would do with the hosta. No good shady place at the historic cemetary. Deer will eat it up north. It’s almost like I should make a new shade garden. But where?